MissJali

I'm always up by Nyack, love the parks and the mall lol

I'm in Harlem and the FI is from Springfield Gardens/Jamaica Queens

Denise!!! HOLLA!! Lol, if you come to NY let me know so we can link up! My sister (age 23) is my MOH by default. It's just the right thing to do. One of the bm is my college friend (age 29) of 10 yrs. I think i just gave away my age (but my college friend is a bit older than me LOL) and the other 3 (ranging between 25, 23, and 21) are my godsisters. They seem disinterested since i put my foot down, I want no freaking stippers! Please let's think outside the box! LOL. You know you're not that far from Miami, maybe we can switch. What part of NY are you originally from?

I love it!!!!!!!!! and I love that you did spanish and english! i failed there! SMH

Good Luck!!! Can't wait to see the end results! Yes next time...we'll just get plain STDS and Invites! LOL

a full night of debauchery at its best!!

shhhh! she isss planning it after me lol. she's been having a shitload of changes with dates. she's getting married in Jamaica. lol my sister wanted to do a party bus but im like "ok... where's the bus taking us?" Lol I priced it out $850 for 18 girls isn't bad, comes out to $45-$48 a girl. well see. I'm doing the research and giving my sister a list of what i'd like to do, no strippers please. the male ones are so tacky lol

ugh!I want to go to.miami! but I secretly think my bm sucks (I.know that's mean) lol my sister is my moh and she's kinda a ditz, not the best planner, one bm is now planning a wedding even tho she's already married, one is prego and the other 2...are. like lost in the wind! if you want to come to nyc for yours, I'll be here, I'll probably have to settle on nyc even tho id like to do miami. my fi and I joked about going to miami and having our own bachelor/bachelorette with each other lol

Anyone else feel like they're going to be cheated out of a great bachelorette? My mom keeps reminding me that the BM have to pay for this and that but come on! a bachelorette is part of it right??

lol I could see them telling me to go to hell and not come to prove a point lol smh

I might be the only one who doesn't really care if my guests stay as long as me. I can't exactly ask people to pay to go, take time off of their job and say "umm hey so you know...it's also our honeymoon" my Hispanic family would be deeply offended. But again, maybe it doesn't bother me as much because we've already planned for a delayed honeymoon later on and I sold this DW as a huge family vacation anyway.

my my my Shara, don't rub it in my face! I wish I was able to get tixx. How was it??

Here's the dress I fell in love. White by Vera Wang, like an idiot I didn't take a picture in it. but it fit me so nice and i'm only 5 feet! The only thing is it only comes in Ivory and I need a White dress b/c the FI has chosen his white suit (got it on sale at express) and i guess we kinda have to match. So I am going with Jasmine's Bridal to replicate it for me in white. I too, am not wearing a "beachy, destination" wedding dress. I figured...Go big or Go Home! I'm only doing this once and I'll never get to wear something like this again!!! But my girls are doing the beachy feel with convertible dresses and flat silver sandals. My flower girls, however, will be in the traditional white dress with the colored sash and my ring bearer's father has insisted "a true gentleman does not go casual for such an occasion", so my baby cousin will be in a grey vest and pants with white shirt and bow tie.

I loooove your dress! Great choice!!!

Have you tried contacting Patty from Wright Travel? They own this website and she specializes with the resorts in Punta Cana

LOL! that's how I start my conversations with mine also. And his face changes like he's bracing himself for the ideas lol

guess i better get another vistaprint groupon lol

ahh that's a good idea. The welcome drinks is not private but at a bar in the resort which a lot of people don't know about b/c it's not by the beach or pools. I think that's a great idea regarding the itinerary!!! Thanks!

That's how I feel! LOL Shit might as well get our money's worth!

A fellow Bride used this color scheme. Very very pretty!!!!!!!

I could do the japanese dinner the sunday night, after the wedding which is on Saturday. I'm also doing welcome drinks with everyone on Friday night before the wedding so the rehearsal dinner would be immediately after the welcome drinks. Im thinking maybe people would be too drunk to care that it's just immediate family anyway and we could meet up after the dinner since there is nightly entertainment at the resort. Although I imagine I'll be calling it quits early that night so I can be well rested for the wedding the next day.

Yes I totally went to deals and bought the arm rings for my toddler RB and FG, for my other FG i'm thinking one of the inflatable lounge chairs for the water but I might want it for myself! LOL So I found out my wedding package includes a private rehearsal dinner for 20 people. I originally was going to reserve a spot at the japanese restaurant for 24 people but Im thinking maybe I should take advantage of the free rehearsal dinner with a set menu and do the japanese restaurant another night with the people that won't be at the rehearsal dinner (since it would only be immediate family and the bridal party) What do you girls think?

Can I pleaseeeee get one?? Ugh I wnat to go to St. Lucia now! What a great job Rayn!

Yay!!! Congrats!!!!!

Ha ha I love the website!!!! Very very cute photo!!!