I plan to get married next year in Antigua most likely at the St. James Club. I can't really answer much of your questions but you can check out http://www.antiguanice.com/v2/weddings.php. You can find different vendors here as well as more information about Antigua. I have never been to St. James Club yet but I have been to Antigua three times and may be able to answer some other questions for you non resort related. I hope you will post reviews of St. James Club afterwards to help future brides like myself since such little info is posted. Also, here is there link to their facebook page for weddings (lots of pictures of real weddings)