Due to family issues, and not wanting to pick and choose, I am only inviting immediate family. I gather that there will be some backlash and some of my family members will not be very happy with me. I don't expect/want any gifts from any of my guests or family members, but I do want to do the normal things like taking all the girls to the dress fittings, bachelorette party, and so on. Can I expect people that I haven't invited to my wedding to help celebrate the time leading up to it?