I agree. We want to have our imediate family attend our wedding but even if it doesn't work out that everyone can attend, we are still having our dream wedding. After all it is our wedding. We are going to be paying for my future MIL to be there. My sister is now saying that they may not be able to afford it and we can't afford to pay for both of them so I may be getting married without my sister present. We realized that things like this might arise and agreed early on that as long as our parents would be there we were having our dream wedding in Jamaica.