Thank you ladies for your inputs... ahhh I really wish I could talk FI out of the AHR but he really wants it. I even tried the money card that the $5,000 would be going towards our down payment for our house. Our wedding is Cuba, and I don't know, he wont budge, I even suggested doing a different food alternative than from a full buffet with meats, veggies, potatoes, salads, etc. But nope. We shall see when the time comes to start making REAL plans for the AHR. Are you girls having a legal ceremony in Cuba? Jolene have you sent your legal documents to Giselle yet, if so... ?