We're getting married in the US first... just because my fiance is in the Air Force and we are going to need our marriage license ASAP so that I am able to get an ID, get under his insurance, live on base, etc. I've heard the licenses can take 3-6 months to get back to the US and we just can't risk it. We're going to go to the courthouse with his parents as our witnesses and have it be very straight to the point. I don't want anything special read because I don't want it to feel like we're already married. We're going to have the date we get "married" in Jamaica be our anniversary date, since that's when we'll be doing the ceremony and celebrating and what not! It feels kinda disappointing, but oh well. Not much else we can do in the situation! If he wasn't in the military, we would probably do the official marriage down in Jamaica. But, you've gotta do what you've gotta do. Hope that helps!