Thank you so much for posting this! I feel exactly the same way as you do about trying to find a venue. We've been engaged since New Year's, but only looking at wedding stuff since March. And I have no idea where to book anything. I wanted to do Bermuda, and got really close to signing something, but in the end it was going to cost us $30,000 to have a wedding with 80 guests there (including everthing--dress, flowers, etc.). Since I can pay the same for twice the number of people at home, I couldn't justify it. To help narrow down our search, we've made a list of things that are a priority to us. For example, we definitely want to do an AI to make it cheaper on our guests and ourselves. We also have some relatives in remote places, like Colombia, who can't fly to any of the US islands easily so we knocked out PR, the US Virgin islands, etc. It hasn't gotten me very far, but it might make it easier for you. The only other thing that I can suggest is to just pick an island and go see it. That's what I did for Bermuda and it made it a lot easier for me to decide. Although the money won in the end. Bleh. I hope that helps. Or if you come up with a solution to decide, let me know. I am so stressed about trying to find something. It's nice to know that someone else is in the same boat!