The cost of the wedding seems to be adding up and up and UP!!! So no excursions for us. But our resort does a beach bonfire on Thursday nights ( which is the day all our guests arrive) we are inviting everyone to join us for this event and to wear "all white" so we stand out as a group and my photographer can get done great group shots of everyone in white! Then the wedding is Saturday. We will all meet up for brunch Sunday! Other than that... Everyone is on their own. We wanted our guests to feel this is their vacation rather than pushing them to do what we wanted each day! So the 3 events seemed enough: beach bonfire, WEDDING, and brunch!