That is crazy, but hopefully you have it worked out by now. But it just sucks that YOU had to be the one to worry about it ya know? Funny what planning a wedding makes you see in your friends. I have a friend who I asked to be my bridesmaid, and she couldnt make the trip. Wouldnt tell me or answer her phone for months, then finally about a month ago (even though I had already known from other friends) she TEXTED me that she couldnt make it and now keeps telling all our girlfriends to shut up about my wedding she doesnt want to hear about it. I get that shes just upset she couldnt make it, but dang could be a little nicer about it ya know. Oh well. Im in the easy breezy stage now and aint nobody going to stress me out anymore! Leaving in two days!