Which wedding coordinator have you been dealing with? i'm dealing with Minel, who i have found to be really helpful but i just thought that if i asked her about DJ she would never say that he was bad. There is an option for getting an outside DJ but they still charge you $100, but who really knows if they will be good either. How far are you with you planning have you booked/chosen anything for your wedding, flowers, decoration, menu etc. I've never been to the resort but someone i know went there in March and they said that the Italian restaurant was really good