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oh wow!! i didn't even think of it this way!!!! that's an amazing plan. I'm going to rethink this!

ME TOO!!!!

lol i'm nosey too!!! shan0487, you're flying your photog down? I was thinking about it, but we found an amazing local photographer that has awesome reviews and his pics are gorgeous! so saving funds on that front too!!

YES! the price match is awesome too!!! such a weight lifted off my shoulders.

that's what we're doing. putting down a deposit and it'll go to our suite at the hotel, which we would have had to pay anyway. We're just paying it early.

So at first I was thinking there was absolutely no need for a TA, and thought the prices I was getting online and from the hotel directly were much better. But thinking it through and working with Babs, a BDW TA....SO GLAD we're going with them! She's been making it so easy. HER prices were much better, as they def included transfers, and just all around cheaper. Plus it helps to have someone there to explain everything to you and your guests. Love that they won't have to come to me for questions (at least I hope) Not to mention, they'll be able to breakdown payments into a plan (not paying everything upfront) I know some of my guests will appreciate that (esp my younger bro/sis/cousins) Babs is great! Plus she says HOLLA (holler) in her emails/calls to me. LOVE HER!

so cute!! i love them! you guys look so fun!

I love that this website gives us an opportunity to vent our frustrations! We can go on and on...but in the midst of it, I'm also glad to see a post like whatsup's. People are going to annoy us no matter what. We're going to feel certain ways. I'm going to keep reminding myself over and over, that this is OUR time. There or not, we'll have a great time regardless! It's going to special. I'm going to be happy when my fiance sees me walking down the aisle for the first time. I'm going to be ecstatic to have our first dance. I'm going to cry when I dance with my dad. Yea, I'm going to focus on the things that'll make me happy. Of course, easier said than done, but I'm definitely going to try. So all the people who have told me that they are coming, and they bail. Good riddance. All those that cancel out even after reserving, see you when we get back. All those who don't show up...send me a gift suckas! (adding a neck twirl and all!) Quote: Originally Posted by whatsup I agree RSVP's/commitments are a frustrating part of the wedding process, but whether local or a DW, it's the same thing. In local weddings some guests add a plus 1, when not invited, or a MOH doesn't 'fulfill' her responsibilities, divorced parents fight, cancellations days before ... there is always something. So why should we expect any less from a destination wedding? To get through it, we just need to focus on the end result. Keep smiling and persevering. Whomever shows up that is great, all the little stuff in the middle only leads us off track and makes what should be wonderful stressful and anxiety filled. When we announce the engagement a the fact that it is a DW, would we expect people to right away say that's fantastic but we cannot come? They are being polite and not being a downer. In the months that follow we are focused on us as a couple, people are focused on themselves too. We need to be more open about the dialog we have with people. If we are disappointed we should say so, instead of taking it in, it's on them not us. We did right by inviting them, their choice to not attend will be on them. These are some of the things I say to myself and try to take to heart, so I don't feel angry. Cause the person who ends up getting the other end of my anger is the one I'm spending the rest of my life with.

here are a couple! really happy with them, even tho the day was a disaster. It was a super humid day, and I have extremely curly hair. Had my hair straightened, but that didn't last more than 20 mins. Turned into a frizzy mess! so had to ponytail it up. in the end, I was happy, but during the day, I was slowly freaking out. Hubby was a blessing. he kept me calm and relaxed as much as possible. love that guy!

That's a little reassuring actually. I won't get my hopes up that everyone who says they'll come will actually come. and all those asking to bring a date...ha! congrats by the way TheWolferts! I see your wedding was just a couple of weeks ago!

oh dear! this is my biggest fear too! not to sound horrible, but everytime someone says they can't make it, inside i get a little happy. as much as i want everyone there, my little DW has blown up! invited 150, as we were thinking less than half will come. now i keep getting texts/calls/emails "hey we're def coming!" but you're right! life could be much worse...more people to party with!!

lol shan0487 just got my pics back too!! and i've got tons more to do!!!! aghhhh i'm starting to feel the pressure!

JustNoelle! that's hot! change it up a little. I think we're going to walk out to an upbeat song (hip hop or pop/funk) Just make it fun ya know!

These look great! Thanks for sharing!!

Yes! That's how I'm really starting to feel!!

I do have pics! I'll post them real soon! (work has been crazy!) We're 11-10-12. so excited!

hehehehe you're defiitely not the only one!

I just had to say it! it makes me happy to go on here EVERYDAY! seriously!

Awesome post! thank you for sharing...and congratulations on the new bundle of joy!!!!!

These are awesome! Thanks for sharing!

I'm so sorry to hear this! Since he won't be able to travel internationally, are you thinking about now doing it in the states? Is there a reason he won't sign the passport papers? I'm frustrated for you, but remember to breathe....it's your special day and as long as your son is with you, you'll have your dream wedding anywhere. Just need to make it happen with some tricks and magic...which you'll get off of this site i'm sure!

GREAT idea! Thinking it through, for now we're going to invite the singles, and they'll be able to bring their guest if they like, but that person won't come to the wedding. If we get enough declines, then we'll be able to include them. Regrouping at the disco later is a good idea. thanks everyone!

HI Brides! Just getting back from a site visit at Dreams and it's absolutely AMAZING! Ladies, you have nothing to worry about. Yes, things are done in a slower fashion there, but Yanna and Jenny are on it all and will take great care of you. Got to see 3 weddings, and except for the rain, everything looked beautiful. So excited for our big day, less than 6 months!

you're so right! both to it being the least we can do and it being my (ahem our) day. hehehehe We're going to play it by ear as the day approaches. Thanks mmb1117!

Morning! I work in Manhattan live in Brooklyn, but originally from Miami. with a few cities in btwn. lol I've been around!