I feel the exactly same way as carajoe08. I really did hesitate for months about booking Elite Media, but finally did and am cutting things in other areas (decorations, flowers, etc) to make it work. For me, when all of this is said and done, I am only going to have the photographs and videos, so I would rather splurge on those than on flowers. I did look into a few of the other videographers, but the only other one I liked was booked for my day. So I am splurging and just thinking how cool it is going be to relive the day on our 5th, 10th, etc anniversary and hopefully share it with our kids and grandkids someday.