I didn't know which one to go with either as they both looked great and were pretty much equal for rooms, dining, bars etc. Jade won out for a couple reasons though... 1. the adults pool at jade is 18+ vs at sapphire its part of the preferred club, if guests don't upgrade i don't want them to not be allowed to hang out with the others 2. there appeared to be more options for locations (of ceremony and reception) at jade, plus i LOVED the pergola Hope this helps makes your decision! Don't worry it gets easier after that, haha!!