We started by figuring out what we HAD to have (AI, legal ceremony, all suites etc), what would be nice to have (multiple a la carte options, lazy river, swim up suites etc) and what would be a deal breaker (decor, size etc) in terms of resorts. From there we were able to weed out resorts that didn't meet our requirements. Then we were able to look more closely at the wedding packages offered at the resorts we had considered to see if anything stood out as great (or not so great). Once we had a more managable list of resorts we asked our TA to start pricing. We had in advance done a bit of checking (online and from discussions with our TA) about ballpark pricing so that we didn't fall in love with a resort that was double our budget. CONGRATS and good luck -- picking the resort is definitely the most challenging part!