Yes luckily someone else, one of my fiances friends who hadnt booked yet, stepped up to take over the deposit. It worked well fro him cause we had booked her into one of the cheapest rooms because of her money situation, and now he gets a cheap room because i believe he is coming by himself. And it would have been nice for her to be honest, but i still dont get the trip to toronto but oh well its done now. Luckily dress shopping with my other two girls went very well. no complaints about what i wanted them in, their responses the entire time was just 'whatever you want'. And hey if you wanna make the trip to jamiaca lol im one bridesmaid short! lol