Hello NotuUravrgeBride, As a wedding planner here in the Riviera Maya. I will have to say Playacar palace has almost everything you listed on here, except your will have a beach ceremony. They are for sure affordable, family friendly and closer to town especially for those guests who enjoy night life. White sandy beach and good food. My second choice is secret maroma beach for the you will get 5*** and all your guests will have tons of fun they do have the most beautiful beach. Riu Palace have the beautiful beach, you can have your ceremony in a gazebo over looking the beach. . Hope this information was helpful. Feel free to ask us anything any we will be happy to help. Happy Planning Joyce