Thanks ladies, I am having fun with all of the DIY stuff and planning I have even used an on-line website that I shared here to play with flower designs. We have told people about the date change and are now wondering when we should send the save the dates. We have to wait until some resort stuff is finalized but after that we think maybe we should send them by May. We had originally picked the Barcelo Palace for our wedding but the response time and help I am getting is lackluster to put it nicely. I love the resort and people rave about it but the packages are super expensive especially compared to other resorts. The other one we are looking at is the Dreams Riviera Cancun, it looks beautiful and correspondence to my questions is fantastic. The weeding packages are great too, my only problem is that I don't know anyone who has stayed there like I do with Barcelo. We have never traveled before and are super excited, but it's hard because we want to wedding to be beautiful and memorable for the right reasons. It's also hard that we are getting lots of options form family about everything, a lot of them prefer the pacific side cause they have been there and say it's cheaper, they also say the Caribbean side is "overrated". We love the idea of the Caribbean ocean but it's hard when we are getting flack. Sorry for the long rant but I really need some advice. Thanks for your help I have been super stressed about it lately.