Ok ladies, When did you, or when do you plan to send out your official invitations? My wedding is March 9, 2013. I sent the save the date magnets around Memorial Day. I'd like to send out invites sooner rather then later, just so everyone has plenty of time to get their travel plans in order. I am trying to understand the dinner options for the Eternity package. Do the guests get a choice of the scallop/mahi-mahi and the pork? Do I include those options on the invite? If they choose the pork is the appetizer and soup set for them? Thanks!