Welcome QuintanaV! A long engagement is GREAT! Give you plenty of time to plan! I think it's never too soon to plan! I am 2 months in (engaged Christmas 2011) and basically all I have done is picked a resort, date (waiting on school to confirm break for date), chose colors & found a dress. AS far as a timeline, I have been just reading through this forum and writing down a slew of ideas!!!! I am keeping a journal...and bought a planning book on Amazon.com: http://www.amazon.com/Destination-Wedding-Planner-Ultimate-Planning/dp/0811866734/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1329144217&sr=8-1 I am feeling a little overwhelmed, but know once I have my date booked and confirmed, I can roll out my plan. I am assuming my next step would to get the STD's out & the website complete. I am hoping then this site will just guide me the rest of the way (I am addicted to it! LOL) The group of women on here are amazing & more than generous with information & advice..I am sure someone will be taking the time to share a timeline with you. Happy Planning & see you around the forum!