LOL at first this made me laugh the make babies and buy a house! that is kind of how I feel! I agree with everyone I think that we all chose to have the DW so that we could do the wedding easily with zero to no stress, I have decided that I am going to wait a little longer get the quotes one more time and then just book it, I made peace before we started planning that I will be fine with whoever comes and not stress about the people that cant come, the only reason that I am upset about it all is because of the mistake that my TA made, but at the end of the day it is what it is... and I dont think that asking people to go on a vacation to paradise is such a hardship, oh and by the way while we are all in paradise we are going to get married! man how dare I! LOL