I got in touch with the resort first and then booked my flights and then confirmed the date! Our deposits were due at the end of January, we skipped STD and sent invitations in November... We have 49 people including us. I got my dress the end if November and it should be here the end of April. My FI ordered his suit from Studio Suits and it came last week its perfect, so the GM are getting their pants there as well. I have laynards and pockets for room card and tip holders but havent done them yet, and have luggge tags but havent done that yet either, I am stuck with bridesmaid dresses I want orange and cant find them so I am holding in cae I have to change my colours, I am going looking today so fingers crossed! Once I get those I can keep going with everything else. The onky worry I would have about flights not being booked is that a week before our deposits were do, our flight was sold out... My TA thinks that it may be another wedding and they are holding 90 seats for that group and they might become avaliable agin but still glad I booked when I did. Its good to see where everyone is in planning Im relaxed that I dont seem to be very far behind!