I can relate to some of the frustrations being expressed here. Definitely. I'm at 3.5 months until my wedding (in March!) When we first announced that rooms were reserved and ready to book... the ONLY people who booked were my fiance's parents. I sent out official invitations in September, giving a booking date of November 15th. We actually have until January for people to book, but we wanted people to do it early so that we wouldn't stress. Anyway.. November 10th came around, and only our parents had booked. We sent a reminder e-mail about the resort book-by date of Nov. 15th, and please let us know either way. That got people going, and now we have 28 people booked, and a few more maybes. We originally sent out 60 invites. I am frustrated by the amount on non-responders though. We COMPLETELY understand if people can't make it. But it kind of hurts my feelings when people can't even be bothered to say no. I don't want anyone to feel pressured, but ignoring my invite means that a) I feel like you don't care enough to even reply and now I have to contact you and ask you directly to make sure, and that makes me feel like a jerk. UGH.