i received lots of help with this one. However, I am a little scared to use it to be honest. I am going to let them know that if they bring there children thats fine, but for the wedding and reception it is kid free. there is a kids club at our resort. I am hoping this will encourage some of our guests to leave their children at home. The problem here is I will have to forfeit a flower girl- i think. Its a tough one, and you certainly cannot make 1 or 2 exceptions because then you will be the jerk.