We are doing photos afterwards. My FI is set on staying apart the night before, and having our eyes first meet at the alter. I like the idea of seeing each other first and having a moment, but I am happy to share that moment with my friends and family that have traveled to see us. One of the only traditions we are doing! Plus, we are also getting married at 5pm. I would like to have some sunset photos with my "husband." Bummed that we will miss part of cocktail hour but I feel like it is always that way for brides and grooms. I am hoping to arrange some cocktails on the beach- i think it would be a great photo