Can I interject here, even though I'm not a past bride? LOL! Food for thought (literally), the meals all come with a dessert as well, so we did not increase the wedding cake. I've read reviews on here that say there was leftover cake, so that seems like a waste. And we also are not upping the hors d'oeuvres because 15 of our guests are in the wedding party and will be with us doing pics etc- so that's something to think about. Also, we need to remember that we're at an all-inclusive resort and there's lots of options if people want to snack. It's so stressful, worrying about these things, when in reality, i dont think people will care or notice. Speaking of- we now have my brother-in-law deciding he wants to come (originally didnt think he could get the time off work). 8 weeks out. so frustrating!!! And we also have a guest coming that used to work with Anthony, I have met him once. Who does that? I feel like the destinaiton wedding is supposed to be small and intimate. He was also thinking of inviting some dude on his hockey team that I have never met and I put my foot down. Come ON. !!!!