Hey Tova, This also is stressing me out! I always pictured myself in a veil, so my "something borrowed" is a cathedral length veil from one of my bridesmaids, I think I will wear it down the aisle and for pictures, but take it off for dinner and dancing. I plan on wearing a floral headpiece as well, so that will still remain in my hair throughout the night... I also have a fingertip veil that I bought, but somehow it just doesn't have the same romantic effect, know what I mean? Here is my dress, as a visual- it's not lace, but point d'esprit, so has the same effect I think as a lace dress. My Lazaro sash is being delivered tomorrow, I CAN'T WAIT!