Oh, I know what you mean! We originally invited 115 people! We thought we'd end up with about 75 (which still made me nauseous), but turns out a lot of people just weren't interested/able to go. We are having an AHR on June 21st though, and will invite all of those same people, so we'll prob end up w/ about 100 there. I might just have a difficult family though , all of my extended family thinks they're going to wait until 2 wks out and try and book last-minute. We are struggling with that, because we want to implement a hard deadline much earlier than that- I have already started buying stuff, and would like to do as much as I can in advance, so the stragglers are frustrating. That's a whole other post, don't get me started! When we originally sent out the STD (Facebook and email), we got a lot of positive response- we did this in January, and when deposits were due in April, and push came to shove, hardly anyone jumped on board. Which is fine w/ me, I would rather have it be more intimate...