LaBebita911, I don't think you have anything to worry about. I am in the same boat as you, and don't really have much DEFINATELY planned other than my date (june 23,2012). It's tough trying to buy things when you don't have a headcount of people coming. I am experiencing the same frustrations. I have to wait to get my invites out and RSVPs back. I don't even know how many people to expect!!! People can be very flighty, but I am hoping some of my friends will suprise me and come down to MX. What do you think is a minimum amount of people to have a private reception? I am hoping to have at least 20, but a max of 40-50 (unlikely). I don't want it to fee huge, and empty in the reception. I feel your frustration!