Hello, Long story short... Getting married at the Royal in Cancun (5 star hotel) Offering that guests stay at the Royal or the Caribe (sister resort 3.5 star) My mom thinks it's rude to throw a destination wedding without offering people accomedations...well...at least to her friends. I have a 15K-17K budget that I VERY much want to stay in because whatever money I do not spend out of 30K is mine to keep. My mother who is paying for the wedding is offering her friends left and right rooms at the Royal (not the caribe, god FORBID they had to stay at the caribe) at like $400 a night! I want my mom to have friends there, but these are established people in the 40-50's. Why am I paying for their rooms? So far it's close to $7500 just on family and friends (of my parents). Am I being ridiculous? I am trying to squeeze money out of our budget now so I can pay for a photographer, but its not looking good. Again, am I being ridiculous and selfish?