Hey Ladies! 3 weeks until we leave to go.... and I feel like I have most things under control.... well except the brother and sister-in-law who decided to get a divorce about a month ago - and so we had to change everything and cancel her flight - even though she couldn't get her money back... and then today - find out they are going to try to give it another shot. So I have to regig everything again - go back to the resort with new table seatings, menu choices etc.... and wait til monday to hear from our travel agent if she can still come on the trip she paid for but cancelled.... Ah family drama. Feels good to vent amongst people who understand. ANYWAY - With 3 weeks to go - I was wondering what you guys have on your todo lists? I don't want to forget anything - and so I figured if some of you could share those last minute to dos - then we can all be sure we aren't missing anything. For me - I picked up kids gifts for their min oot bags, Practice first kiss (they say this is important) practice first dance Need to buy new suitcase (mine broke last week) finish downloading all music buy sexy underwear for night of wedding pack oot bag boxes and own luggagge wrap bm and gm gifts Finish welcome book - update and finalize agenda Crafts to finish escort cards, door hangers Book Car to take us to the airport (taxi or towncar for group) Take Ring in for cleaning before we leave Oh yah... write vows Write Bride and Groom thank you speech