Hi Jamie, to start off, I want to say Happy New Year!! im sorry that you are deling with this, but as we all know, weddings & funerals bring out the worst in some people! It makes them crazed than they already were! Lol. As far as your friendship goes, if you feel it's something that you want to try and resolve, then you should. But it does seem as f they have already made up their mind to not be real best friends to you. Life is too short to worry about nonsense, move on with your life & be happy! Having these 2 women in your life does not sound like they make you happy. From what you have said about them, they sound a little jealous of you. Don't invite them to your events? Why should you? They won't even talk to you or meet up with you! They don't deserve a friend like you. To celebrate your wedding with your shower, you should only have people around you who you know are genuinely happy for you! With them thre, you might e worried if they are talking about you & things at your shower! It's not worth it! Let them come to you & try to make amends!