Wow, not sure how I missed this! I actually priced out everything to have a reception on the beach at Bay Bistro and it is a bit expensive, but you only get married once! I think it'll be worth it too. We're doing a small tent, paper lanterns, DIY table decor, bonfire etc. We aren't having a cake, instead we'll do s'mores. We aren't the super traditional type so I think this will be right up our ally. I love your idea of menu and thank you cards together. So fun! Thanks for all the info, it was really helpful! I keep getting mixed messages about the dang passport. The website made it sound like the card was fine but I think we'll play it safe and get the whole shebang.