Joanne - Sorry I wasn't clear but that was actually for Taryn. Didn't she post a while back that Friday (today) would be the legal wedding day and then Saturday would be the BD session? Maybe I am mistaken.
I am stressing about the AHR a bit as well - though luckily ours is just an AHP (at home party) instead of a reception (DJ, beer, wine, hors d'ouevres, cupcakes, and slide show). Our party is just 8 days after we get back from Mexico, so the caterer needs a final count before we leave and the DJ needs a song list before we leave, etc. Oh well - it will all happen, it always does.