When we first started looking at prices, we were looking at quotes that were upwards of $2000 from one of our departure cities and that was just too much, so I know how you feel. In the end when we got more finalized quotes, they came in under $2000 so we were okay with that, but it is hard to ask people to spend that kind of money to join you at your wedding. Now i've seen that we've had great response and will be having somewhere between 60 and 80 people attending so I think people are okay with the costs. We considered picking a different resort based on prices, but at the end of the day we decided that we needed to have it where we wanted. You don't know who isn't going to be able to make it regardless of costs and you can't really make decisions based on what other people might or might not do. And for those guests who were coming no matter what, we wanted to make sure that we had chosen a nice resort. I don't know if that helps at all, but at least know that you're not alone in this and that you can get to feeling okay about it! It doesn't bother me any more, but I know at the beginning it did.