As I continue to research the factors that are important to me are: a somewhat secluded wedding site so, as one bride put it, "I don't have some random guy in a speedo in my pics , a nice beach and swimmable portion for the kids, affordable for everyone but not a mega resort where we are all spread out, not too far from the airport. We have photographers for family so I am reading some places won't allow outside people to take pics? Who knew this would be SO difficult and that I would have trouble getting a travel agent to return my e-mail inquiry!!