I totally agree with the comment on the 150 posts. It's a pain but I understand why they do it. It's making me read and comment a lot more than I normal would.
Congratulations and Welcome. I started by reading as many reviews as I could get my hands on. We settled on Mexico and that's about it for now. You have plenty of time so read lots of reviews (with a grain of salt) and go with the one that feels right.
Congrats! I think everyone struggles with picking the perfect resort. I'm in the middle of it to and just had my sister tell me to just stop looking and pick one.