About the set up charge.. Before I left I read it varied from person to person so I wasnt sure what to expect either. If this is any help to you I got charged $200 to set up.. Bows for ceremony chairs Bows for reception chairs Table set up for guest book and 'Love' sign Scatter crystals on all the tables and cocktail tables Favours at everyones place Menu Cards Place Cards Childrens gifts to be put on table Gifts for parents to be put on top table Flower pins for bouquets I didnt think what I took considered alot of work but I dont know how much the people take that they charge $100 for. Also, as for the sheers, we went with the exotic gazebo package which included the candy cane wraps. I asked if I could change these to be draped instead and was told no. They asked if I would like to add the extra sheers over the gazebo for $100 each otherwise the top would be open. I thought for a 20 minute ceremony, I can cope with it being open. But on the day, They added 2 sheers on top of the gazebo as well without any charge. I was very happy with this as it did make it look prettier. I will add pics as soon as I receive my professional pictures