You go girl!! Seriously, people are sooo rude!!! Most of the girls I am inviting, most of whom I have been in their weddings (about 10 weddings in all) which I have spent NO LESS than $1000 to be in their weddings (it's usually around $2000 and 2 were a DW) are already telling me it's too expensive!!! you!!!! Thank you so much for being there for me, selfish much??????????????? But I guess they are telling me now and not 50 day before hand! But it still stings and makes sad that I wanted to do all these nice things for them and their weddings, but won't even come to mine, but promise my parties beforehand will be fun. ummm.....I don't want your help, thank you!!! I have a feeling this will change friendships!!! AAAHHH, apparently, I needed to vent too!!! Thanks!!! This thread is all too common, but much needed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!