Ok, Crest Whitening at 30 day mark sounds reasonable. Im getting married November 11th - resort is booked, all but my mom has received their Passports, date & time confirmed, airfare purchased & recently confirmed,.. Im a lucky bride, my awesome fiance has been handling all of the arrangements. Now Im working on welcome books for the welcome bags, Jamaica survival kits, & raffia fans for the ceremony. We have almost everything purchased for the welcome bags, but we have a major hang up deciding on our wedding favors that will be on the tables at the reception dinner. Im freaking at this point not having everything ordered thats needed! Were really not adding anything as far as decor to the ceremony or dinner... just going with the Bridal Beginnings package and adding some of their a la carte options (ie. star lighting). But should I add some personal touches? Were bringing our own cake topper.... thats about it. Were having a civil ceremony. And after reading some posts on here, Im thinking I need to get moving on writing my own vows. I have no clue on where to even start writing my own vows!