Well we didn't have a wedding and what girl doesn't want to look absolutely drop dead stunning for one day. I always knew I wanted to wear the big ball gown, no matter where I was, rather it be state side or a DW. We didn't have a wedding because it was just not in our budget, so I planned a wedding date far enough out so that it could be obtainable. We aren't trying to "trick" our guest in thinking it is a legal ceremony, they all know that we have been married for close to 2 years, I just really really REALLY wanted a wedding. So it is still my big day without the legal headaches (which makes my ceremony just a little bit cheaper, LOL) As for my dress, it kind of fell into my lap and the guy who made it I went to high school with his daughter, so he was the perfect person for the dress. I like it because I don't have to change clothes, just remove the ball from it and it is indeed short & spunky and ready to party, LOL. He made his daughter's gown and her's transformed into a cute short set, underneath her gown was shorts, so she just removed the skirt.