I agree with JMastr...first and foremost, what will make you happy?!?!? I started with a DW in Jamaica, only to change it to Florida to attempt to accomodate others. I started with a party of 40, then grew to a guest list of 150, only to have a party of 25 now and I am completly happy with my decision to have a DW in Dominican Republic. There will always be pros and cons to all decisions and trust there will always be more negative people than positive people. Everyone will not support your decision but remember this is your day, not their's. My mother and grandfather said it the best, I spent so much time trying to accomodate other people by having my wedding in Florida (I live in Virginia) that I was not happy at all. Now that I am having a wedding in November in the Dominican Republic, everything is falling right into place perfectly!!!