It's okay Amanda, I deal with this everyday, LOL. My husband's cousin and brother are supposed to be his best men. Our wedding is November 12 and neither one has applied for a passport and neither one of them have a plane ticket. In our case we offered to pay for rooming for the wedding party based on double occupancy in a room. His cousin's wife, continues to go back and forth in regards to rather she is coming or not, so as far as I am concerned his cousin (if he comes) has no room and I refused I really mean I REFUSE to worry about them. My husband is so nonchalant towards the matter which really irks me more. C'mon this is your family, not friends, family (brother and cousin) and they can't step up to the plate and do what needs to be done of them!!! So trust me when I say Amanda ~ you are not alone especially being on this site.
I can continue to go on about family, being continuously flaky yet I choose not to let any of them bother me anymore!