Hi trepstep, I'm also getting married at the ME in May, and I am also in contact with Sandra. Personally, I'm constantly e-mailing her with stupid little questions...about flowers, the wedding package, etc...She always manages to take the time to make sure I understand what's happening. I'm not sure about the symbolic ceremony (we are doing a civil), but we were sent a form that we have to fill out for everything related to our day. From decor to flowers, right to the reception. Truthfully, there is no such thing as a stupid question...especially when it's your wedding and it's supposed to be perfect, right?? That's my theory anyways...I will ask a question until I fully understand it... Don't worry about if you are wasting Sandra's time. She's there to help you. Good luck, and happy planning!!