Hi Brides, I have spent a few hours going over all of these wonderful posts and I want to thank everyone for all your information. It has been incredibly helpful. Only 77 days till our big day. I have tried to be good so far and am only NOW starting to get everything together and really concentrate on putting this wedding together. I chose a destination wedding to avoid the LONG planning period and stress of a giant wedding and I will admit so far it has been wonderful. As of now we have the Dolce Italian restaurant booked and the gazebo booked for after (without bartender). We have booked Roan Robinson as a photographer as well. I am getting sooo excited. I believe we have a group of 40 going with us! I will keep checking in for more tips and advise! Thank you again to all the brides who have continued to share helpful information even after they were married. I greatly appreciate it. Best of luck to the brides getting married in January!!