Budget: Hoping very low but my parents and FI's parents are covering everything and pretty much plannig everything. I just make the final decisions Type: Informal -- We are from a very small town (we live in a bigger city now) So I decided I wanted a 'country' feel to my AHR, a family friend of ours has a huge barn that they keep spotless (there has never been a single animal in the barn) and a lot of surrounding land so we are going to have our AHR there we plan to hire either a dj or a band they usually use when they have gathering there When: 3 weeks after wedding Food: I loooooove pulled pork bbq (carolina style) so we are having a pig pickin'!! With other buffet style foods. Clothes: I may wear my dress for the very beginning so that all my friends and family that weren't able to make it can see me in my dress but then i will change into a more comfortable white dress. Invitations: Informal that will be sent out the day after the DW by a family member back home that invites people to come celebrate our recent wedding with us - No RSVPs required. Photographer: Not completely sure but I doubt it Cake: I am thinking about having mini cupcakes in all types of flavors Decorations: Maybe--but not a huge deal since we will be in a barn DW Photos: Will def be on display still figuring out how though I wanted my AHR to be something fun and something I don't have to stress about - - I am pretty excited about it!