Thank you thank you thank you for starting this thread.... BM's girlfriend- seems as though she thinks the price for kids is too high... well, yes... it's not an amusement park for a long weekend... It's a 5 star in the Mayan. Your ex-husband can keep your son for the week, I would enjoy him there and there will be other children there, but I can understand the expense. Then of course she had the nerve to ACTUALLY say "You know, I just don't want our first family vacation to be around so many people." Ummmmmm- not about you. She is forcing her boyfriend to come alone and pay a pretty steep single supplement. He's the BEST MAN... Good family friends- wouldn't DREAM of missing our wedding... apparently Oct 2011 is too early to commit for Oct 2012... Not sure if they can get the time off... new job and all... yeah- Canadian Labour law would disagree with you... I guess what upsets me are the inconsiderate people... as many of you have mentioned. You know what??? IT"S OUR WEDDING. We went above and beyond by taking into consideration price point, proximity to town, proximity to the airport, amenities, beach, best time of year for most guests, child friendly etc... etc... It took us months! Had it been up to me? Super luxury all inclusive in St Lucia-but guess what? I abided by the price point people said they were comfortable with... AND! with all said and done? 15 months for $$ planning. Our TA found SUCH a good deal, that she is booking herself to come! We have 18 people booked from Canada and 4 from California- truth be told?? Almost EVERY single one of our must-haves is coming. The rest? Check it out- you missed the wedding of the year!