For my sister's wedding we saved as much money as possible! We had a friend get our invitations for us. Another friend who was planning on coming to the wedding happens to be a photographer, so he took pictures for us all week for free, and they paid for his trip. Then, he gave them a cd with the pictures on it, so we could have our own printed! That way, we could also have them printed on the thank-you notes for the reception. And, the reception was a small carry-in reception after they got home, where we provided the meat, drinks, and utensils, but everybody carried in a tray per person, AND everybody was satisfied with the food because they brought it!