We are really considering having our wedding at the Real. We've been there twice and loved it. Stayed in the beachfront suites and they are the BEST i really recommend staying in those rooms you walk right out to the beach and have your own cabbana right outside your porch area. We're not exactly sure on a date yet. Our family isn't really sure about a destination wedding. Do you guys have any suggestions on helping family and friends be able to attend a destination wedding? Are we supposed to pay for our bridesmaids and groomsmen to come? Thanks for the help