ah Dayna, I'm so sorry you're dealing with all of this so close to your wedding. The other ladies have offered some great advice, and perspective. Wedding seem to bring out the worst in people, and I imagine the fact that you're the first among them to get married is what's causing a lot of this - jealousy, envy, whatever. It's true that people enter (or leave) your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Many reasons, a few seasons, and very few are there for the lifetime. While it hurts to have them act the way they are during this very special time in your life, be thankful it isn't happening at the wedding, or ruining your special time at the resort. Focus on you, your fiance, your family, and the friends who will be there with you to celebrate. Those will be the ones to surround you and support you start your married life together. Take a deep breath, let the drama go, and look ahead to the amazing time you'll have in a few short weeks.