We are having ours 2 weeks after DW. We(including entire wedding party) will wear our wedding day attire into the reception. We will do the first dance, mother/son dance, etc just like a normal wedding reception. We are having a civil ceremony in Mexico. Since we have so many family that can't make the DW, my cousin is going to marry us at our AHR, but shhhh..... It's a surprise! We are having a band. For food it is going to be very informal, buffet style. My dad is bbqing. We will have a traditional wedding cake and since it's going to be in Texas in July we're having an ice cream bar in lieu of Groom's cake.